WHEN THE LORD IS SILENT
Matthew
15:21-29
21
Leaving that place, Jesus withdrew to the region of Tyre and Sidon.
22 A Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to him, crying out,
"Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is suffering
terribly from demon possession."
23
Jesus did not answer a word. So his disciples came to him and urged
him, "Send her away, for she keeps crying out after us."
24
He answered, "I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel."
25
The woman came and knelt before him. "Lord, help me!" she
said.
26
He replied, "It is not right to take the children's bread and
toss it to their dogs."
27
"Yes, Lord," she said, "but even the dogs eat the
crumbs that fall from their masters' table."
28
Then Jesus answered, "Woman, you have great faith! Your request
is granted." And her daughter was healed from that very hour.
This
text is also presented in Mark 7:24-31 which gives more information
Mark
7:24-31
24
Jesus left that place and went to the vicinity of Tyre.
He entered a house and did not want anyone to know it; yet he could
not keep his presence secret. 25,
as soon as she heard about him, a woman whose little daughter was
possessed by an evil spirit came and fell at his feet. 26 The woman
was a Greek, born in Syrian Phoenicia. She begged Jesus to drive the
demon out of her daughter.
I
take my subject from verse 23
“AND
HE ANSWERED HER NOT A WORD”
WHAT
HAPPENS WHEN JESUS IS SILENT?
Let
me give you some background for this text.
Jesus
spent most of His time in the cities around the area of Galilee near
His hometown.
His
preaching and teaching drew large crowds because He healed their sick
where
ever
He was. In addition, the Pharisees and the teachers of the law from
Jerusalem
came
down to find fault with His teaching to condemn Him.
Have
you ever wanted to get away from the problems of your life and just
have
some
quiet time alone? Just have some peace to get your mind together.
The
text presents Jesus in this stressful situation. He just needed to
get away from the
crowd.
He traveled with His disciples uphill 50 miles to the Mediterranean
coast in the area of Tyre and Sidon.
Galilee
is 686 feet below sea level. The mountain is 1400 feet above sea
level
To
get to Tyre and Sidon Jesus traveled on a road up the mountain and
then back down
the
mountain to get the port cites of Tyre and Sidon. This is a 50-mile
trip one way.
Jesus
traveled to a place where the people were worshipers of Baal and
Astarte
He
traveled with His disciples to a place where He would not be known,
to get away
from
the crowd. He went to these Gentile cities for some quiet time.
Did
I tell you that Jesus and His twelve disciple traveled up the
mountain
then
down the mountain to the sea?
Did
I tell you it was 50 miles one way? Did I tell you it would have
taken 3 days
to
go from Galilee to Tyre and Sidon? Did I tell you that Jesus did no
ministry
during
the trip to Tyre? Did I tell you it was supposed to be a secret trip?
WHAT
WAS THE PURPOSE OF THE TRIP? I AM GLAD YOU ASKED.
As
soon as Jesus arrived, He went into a house to hide out. But the word
got out that He was there. It would been obvious to the city folk
that this group of 13
men
were visiting from somewhere. You can’t just slip into a city all
dusty from
a
trip and nobody notices. They had to check into somebody's house or
Inn.
PREPARING
TO MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE
A
mother came out of the area with a prayer request.
Her
daughter was demon-possessed. She had one of them
kids
who was unruly and destructive. You know one of them kids that was
constantly
having
a temper tantrum. You know one of them kids throwing and breaking
stuff.
You
know one of them kids that was in trouble all the time. One of the
kids that
gave
you a headache all day long. You know one of them kids that a belt
whipping
made
no difference.
She
had heard about Jesus. She may have even witnessed some of his
miracles.
Since
He cured other folks, she became convinced Jesus could cure her
child.
She
probably had tried all her idol gods to no avail. She heard Jesus was
in town and
she
came crying after Him.
Jesus
and His disciples must have been walking around town because the text
says
she
came crying after them. It is in verse 23.
The
woman had some background on this doctor. She knew all the right
words.
I
don't know whether she knew Jesus or just knew what He could do.
I
don't know if she knew Jesus as Lord or just called Him that to get
his attention.
The
fact is she was convinced, Jesus could heal her daughter.
The
evidence is Jesus made a 50-mile trip to get to her, a Gentile idol
god worshiper.
That’s
my first point in the text
JESUS
IS PREPARING TO MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE
She
cried out, Lord Son of David have mercy on me. My daughter is
demon-possessed.
She
stated her case. You would think Jesus having made a 50-mile trip
from Galilee up a mountain road and down the mountain, would have
addressed her immediately.
She
cried out to Jesus, but the text says:
He
answered Her, not a Word.
THERE
IS A REASON FOR GOD’S SILENCE
This
was unlike Jesus. Jesus heard the prayer but said nothing. What was
He up to?
Jesus
is always up to something regarding you.
Jesus'
disciples spoke up. Send her away, she is making too much noise.
I
think Jesus' reason for not saying anything was twofold. He used the
situation to teach His disciples a lesson and to teach the needy
mother a lesson.
The
disciples were quick to send the lady away. They dismissed her
problem as unimportant.
They
were too busy following the church, that they could not be the
Church. They knew
Jesus
wanted some quiet time, so they ignored, and diminished the worth of
this suffering, crying mother. They showed no compassion for a mother
and child in need.
She
was a Gentile, not a Jew. She may have been Black. The Phoenician
people
of
the area had an African stock and a Syrian stock. The text says she
was Greek.
The
disciples may have been biased, prejudiced, or racist. We did not see
Peter denying the service of Jesus in healing his mother. Peter
brought Jesus to his house. They did not treat this mother with
compassion. They didn't consider her as their neighbor.
Jesus
allowed His disciples to show their bias and lack of compassion for
the mother’s
daughter.
Jesus led the disciples to the Gentile area to show them their
mission.
They
needed to understand that God is no respecter of a person.
Jesus
will meet you where you are. Jesus will meet you in your
darkest
hour. Jesus will meet you in the hospital. Jesus will meet
you
on the job. Jesus will meet you deep in sin. Jesus will meet
you
in the courtroom. Jesus will meet you when your bank account
is
empty.
Jesus
met this Phoenician woman in her city, 50 miles away from
area
of ministry.
GETTING
YOU TRAINED TO BE BLESSED
You may wonder why you have so
many problems. God uses your
problems to train you. Train
up a child in the way he should go.
God is the parent, and you are
His children. We are all in a training
program.
God
used the mother’s demon-possessed child to draw her to Jesus.
Sometimes your
problems
are a blessing in disguise. Your problem is your training program.
The
text says she came out. The only way to get us out of a dark
situation is to
present
us with problems near and dear to us that we can't handle. A problem
so
heavy
that your heart breaks with sadness. You are hurting on the inside
for
someone
you love.
Allowing
His disciples to speak first with a negative tone, may cause the
mother
to
question her confidence in Jesus. The disciples' negative response
might have
sparked
a fire that produced a flame for Jesus. The minimizing of the woman’s
need
may have made her more determined to see Jesus.
The
text says she followed after Jesus crying for help. Lord. Master, Son
of David.
The
more you say a word, the more it will be fixed in your mind
He
was the Son of a King. The more you say it the more you will believe
it.
Matthew
15:23
Jesus
did not answer a word. So his disciples came to him and urged him,
"Send her away, for she keeps crying out after us."
Why
didn’t the disciples urge Jesus to help her? Why didn’t the
disciples see the
woman's
daughter as worthy of Jesus' help?
Maybe
Jesus' silence was purposed to keep her calling His name.
If
you want a relationship with Jesus, He is worth the trip. He came to
her area
not
to ignore her but to draw her from idol gods, Baal and Astarte.
She
came out of her darkness toward the marvelous light.
She
had a prayer of desperation. She had a prayer of hope
Baal
couldn’t help. Astarte couldn’t help. Jesus was her help
She
had a prayer of love. She had a prayer of faith
She
had heard or witnessed the miracles of Jesus.
It
was a prayer back with her knowledge of the power of Jesus
She
was a Greek, not a Jew. It was a prayer from the wrong race at the
right time.
Why
did Jesus answer not a word on her request?
It
allowed Satan to step in through the mouths of Jesus' disciples.
It
planted seeds of doubt in the situation
Jesus'
answer planted more doubt.
Matthew
15:24
24
He answered, "I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel."
This
appears to be another rejection. It appears to be a confirmation of
His
disciples
minimizing her daughter's illness.
If
that was the case, why was Jesus in the region of Tyre and Sidon?
We
find no sermons or miracles on this 50-mile journey.
There
were not many Jews in Tyre and Sidon. They were Gentile cities.
Jesus'
response didn't make any sense to me. But I am only seeing it through
my
eyes.
It
was an opportunity for her faith to be tested.
It
was an opportunity for faith to prosper in her heart.
All
things work together for our good. If she didn’t have a problem
with her daughter,
She
would not have gone to Jesus. The Lord presents Himself to us in our
time of need.
She
needed the Lord's help. But more importantly, she needs the salvation
of the
Lord.
How much do you want Jesus in your life? Do you want Him for a season
or
do
you want Him for all times? Do you want Him for your health or do you
want Him
for
your soul?
To
know Jesus, you have to spend some time with Him to know his plan and
His Will.
Jesus
drew her with a conversation that required more explanation. He had a
plan for
Israel
but did He have a plan for the Gentiles? Specifically, does Jesus
have a plan for
you?
Jesus
had the teach this woman who He was; He was Lord
Jesus
needed to teach this woman His Power and authority; He Was king
Jesus
had to teach this woman to be blessed you got to have a relationship
with
Him.
She
knew He could heal. Why was He giving her a hard time?
LEADING
YOU TO A CONFESSION OF FAITH
Matthew
15:25
The
woman came and knelt before him. "Lord, help me!" she said.
When
your family member is sick, no is not an option.
Her
desperation brought her to her knees to worship Him.
Before
she cried out to him walking behind Him, but now her pride was gone.
She
was on her knees in prayer. All thoughts of her idol gods are out of
her mind
It's
just the woman and Jesus. Lord help me was her prayer.
She
passed the negative folk and went straight to Jesus.
It
is good to develop a relationship with Jesus in prayer.
LEADING
YOU TO CONFESSION OF SIN
Matthew
15:26
26
He replied, "It is not right to take the children's bread and
toss it to their dogs."
What
do you say, Jesus? You called this suffering Black woman a dog.
You
can compare a man to a dog. We can take it. You can’t call a
woman a dog
and
not expect a fight. I don't know about you but if I ever call my wife
a dog
I
would be sleeping in the car on the street headed for a divorce.
Look
like the conversation went from bad to worst. First Jesus ignores
her.
Then
He appears to say she is not the right race. Then He calls her a dog.
I
don’t know what the woman was thinking, but I would expect an
explosive
response
from her.
Here
is where I know this woman had let go of her idol worship and
developed
a
strong faith in God.
Matthew
15:26
"Yes,
Lord," she said, "but even the dogs eat the crumbs that
fall from their masters' table."
When
you need something for Jesus you can’t get upset with Him. You have
to see the
good
in His Word. The truth is we are all dogs in need of God's crumbs of
mercy.
This
Gentile woman confessed her sins while seeking God’s mercy
His
word says we don't need much mercy from Jesus. Just a little
mercy
will do.
This
Gentile mother knew that a dog was a family pet, loved by its owner.
She knew that the family members ate before their pets. She also knew
that a crumb from the master's table was all that was needed to heal
her daughter. She knew it was a privilege to be under the Master's
table.
It
is a privilege to be under God's guidance and direction. It is a
privilege to be
in
the house of the Lord. It is a privilege to get crumbs of God’s
mercy.
God
knows you. He knows your sins. He got to clean you up so He can dress
you
up
in His righteousness. God has a way of cleaning you up to sit at His
table.
It
is the Word of God that does the convicting of
your
heart through the power of the Holy Spirit.
LEADING
YOU TO THE
VICTORY IN JESUS
CHRIST
Matthew
15:28
28
Then Jesus answered, "Woman, you have great faith! Your request
is granted." And her daughter was healed from that very hour.
It
was not by accident that mercy met misery. It is not by accident that
Jesus shows up at
your
doorstep in times of need. Jesus uses your misery to get your
attention.
He
strings you along until you are ready to let go of your sins and let
Him in.
He
strings you along in your misery until you are ready to confess your
faith.
It
is faith in Jesus that brings a change in your life
It
is faith in Jesus that brings healing
It
is faith in Jesus that brings comfort
It
is faith in Jesus that puts your finances in order.
That
50-mile trip was worth it to Jesus to win her soul.
The
angels rejoice when one sinner repents.
You
are worth it to Jesus. Are you willing to take the journey with
Jesus?
We
are all on a journey with Jesus. The journey got some mountains.
The
journey got some rough roads. The journey is filled with trouble
The
journey is filled with God’s grace and Mercy
The
journey comes with God’s protection
The
journey comes with God’s provisions
The
journey ends with God's desired result, your faith in Jesus.
The
journey ends in victory
The
journey ends with Jesus as your Lord and Savior
ARE
YOU READY TO TAKE THE JOURNEY WITH
JESUS?