HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE
Ephesians 5:1-20
We all start our day the same way. It is the blessings of
God that allows us to see another day. Everybody that wakes up have been
favored by God. It does not matter what health
Problems you have, what family problems you have or what
financial problems you Have; you start the day with blessings. Its how you
handle this day that determines A happy
outcome.
Remember that Paul is talking to the Church. The same things
that affects us to day
Is what affected the Church 2000 years ago.
Ephesians 5 gives us insight to living a joyful life.
Apostle Paul is talking to believers Of Jesus Christ.
Paul gives three areas that affects the Joy of Christians;
Personal Choices, personal relations we develop and personal
resolve.
I. PERSONAL CHOICE
Eph 5:1-2
5
Be
imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and live a life
of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant
offering and sacrifice to God.
A. WHO IS YOUR ROLE MODEL
1. Be imitators of
Christ.
2. Out of God
love, HE gave us Christ as our redeemer.
3. Start your day
with thoughts of love.
a. Even if you
can’t get along with someone, make the effort to
say you
love them because that is God’s command.
b. God never
told me to like the evil that comes out of their mouth
or the
evil that they do.
c. God says
love because the person because He loves the person
of you.
d. Love is the
door to relationship.
4. The role
models you chose influences your lifestyle and personal
Relationships and choices you make
B. CHRISTIAN LIVESTYLE
Eph 5:3-7
But among you there must not be even a
hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because
these are improper for God's holy people. 4 Nor should
there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but
rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No
immoral, impure or greedy person — such a man is an idolater — has any
inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.a 6 Let no one deceive you with empty
words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are
disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.
1. Refrain from sexual immorality.
2. Refrain from impurity of any kind.
3. Don’t use obscene language
4. Don’t be greedy.
5. Don’t engage in foolish talk.
6. Let your conversation be full of grace
7. Stay away from evil minded folk
C. BE IN A THANKFUL
MODE
1. Being thankful
eliminate complaining
2. Being thankful
eliminates envy.
3. Being thankful
eliminates sadness.
4. Being thankful
eliminate negative thoughts.
5. Being thankful
takes the focus off you and puts it on the Lord.
6. Being thankful
may cause others to consider the goodness
of the Lord in
their lives
II. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Eph 5:8-14
8 For you were
once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light 9 (for the fruit
of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) 10 and find out
what pleases the Lord. 11 Have nothing to do with the fruitless
deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 For it is
shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. 13 But everything
exposed by the light becomes visible, 14 for it is light
that makes everything visible. This is why it is said:
"Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will
shine on you."
A. Recognize your position in
Christ
1. You
are a child of the King.
2. You are the light in the Lord Jesus
3. You are a role model for others to
follow.
4. Let the Word of God be your guide to
everyday
decisions.
B. Be selective about the people you hang with.
1. Distance yourself from people who are
evil minded.
2. Stay away from negative people.
3. Stay away from people who are angry
4. Don’t try to fit in with the world.
5. Recognize that everybody will not be
your friend.
6.
Don’t entertain gossip of any kind.
III. PERSONAL RESOLVE
Eph 5:15-20
15 Be very
careful, then, how you live — not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most
of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do
not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. 18 Do not get
drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19 Speak to one
another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your
heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father
for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
A. Christian Attitude Of Joyfulness
1.
Make up your mind that you will make this day
that
God has given you a joyful day
2.
Make the most of every opportunity that God puts before you.
3.
Missed opportunities may not return.
4. Tomorrow has its own problems you may
have to deal with.
Make the most of today.
Ps 118:24
This is the day the Lord has made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it.
5. Fear the Lord.
Ps 111:10
The
fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom;
all who follow his precepts have good
understanding.
To
him belongs eternal praise.
B.
Be filled with the spirit.
1.
Be filled with spirit is to be controlled by the spirit.
2. Being controlled by the Spirit is
following God’s commands
3. The spirit will not speak on its
own.
John 16:13
Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth,
is come, he will guide
you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but
whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will
shew you things to come.
John 14:26
But the
Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father
will
send in my name, he shall teach you all things, andbring
all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto
you.
4. Notice being drunk with wine is to be
under the influence of the wine
which may lead to a false freedom from
responsibility.
5. One under the control of the Spirit is
responsible to the Spirit.
C. Be the praise leader
1. Speaking is the language of
understanding.
Music is the language of the heart.
2.
Psalms, Hymns and spiritual songs express our devotions to God.
3.
We can sing ourselves into a joyful mode.
a. Wake up in
the morning with hymn of praise.
b. Praising God lifts your spirit.
c. Praising God takes your focus of
you and puts it on
goodness of the Lord
d. Praising God eliminates complaining
about what God has blessed
You with.
D.
Resolve daily to be in a thankful and grateful mood.
1.
Make it your business to thank God for all things.
2.
Thank God for your existence.
Acts 17:28
For in him we live, and move, and have our being; as certain
also of your own poets have said, For we are also his
offspring.
3. Give God credit for everything in your life;
good or bad.
Remember this fact,
Rom 8:28
And we know that all things work
together for
good to them that love God, to
them who are
the called according to his
purpose.
Rev M. Mitchell